I am a confused person today . As there are things in this world that i could not fathom out - the reasons and what is ethical , moral or "right" in this society? No..do not be quick to judge me here , i aint trying to act "Chim" nor am i too engrossed in "Jude the obscure" (a Novel) .

Nowadays i keep seeing many of my gal friends being overly chummy with their so called Guy best friends . Please do not be offended because im simply stating how i feel about the issue which has been a perplexing issue for me, for quite some time.

That if one consider the other gender as platonic friend , then one should not be too physically intimate with "him" . Because no matter how close you two are , if the "Line" is crossed then platonic friendship may not remain that way for long . The Difference in gender is a segregation that should not be ignored as it may lead to an unexpected outcome - Love , Lust . I said "May" not Will .
Personally i feel that if girls go around being too physically close to her self- proclaimed guy friends then they should not blame the guys for liking them . Because YOU kind of lead them to it. Don't go around saying "I did not mean it in that way , i just want to remain friends ..only friends. " I mean , if you seriously want to remain friends then dont go holding hands or hugging them, no matter how innocent the gesture may seem to you . What your little pure mind may think , could be entirely different from a guy's mind. Please remember that most guys are ruled by their "lil brother" and not their brain , lust or love may simply be their intention . As quoted by Claudio in MUch Ado about Nothing -Friendship is constant in all things , except in Offices and affairs of Love. And trust no agent , for Beauty is a witch .

I sincerely offer my condolences to the 'pitiful' souls out there who are getting tormented immensely and does'nt not have enough strength to get out of the 'spiderweb' that you nice female buddies have entrapped you in it , innocently of course.

Last but not the least , i aint trying to be sarcastic here or even critical . Just merely being sceptical about what is right and what is harmful to others. However i do know that there are many out there who may not agree with me . And i aint trying to be a saint here , although not for the lack of trying .I mean im not a nice and kind person either , never am and never will be . For all the moral and ethical notions that i have just brought up , i aint no Moralist either . I choose people to be nice to , friends to be kind to and torture the rest out there with my "overwheming hipocrisy" . Hence thats why i say im confused , its a complex world out there. I am a conservative and narrow minded girl . Do pardon my ignorance that is not to be flaunted but may seem glaring to you.

I aim at no particular person . i just feel that everyone has melted and mould into a single sex . Btw gay friends are not included in my above dilemma as being intimate with them , may simply be like being with your girlfriends . Hence they are an exception .
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