Hey all...Guess everyone is either busy working or Busy working.....*sad*
Except on Sundays when i get to play volleyball , i practically slack around every other day .

Ta da ...here it goes...my thoughts from this week of Bumming around .

Does everything or everyone in our life , has to fit well into our lifestyle or our circle of friends?
So what if a couple is deeply in love? They may break up because of their race's , religion and family's wealth differences , not because they are not in love . Once (many many years ago...sound very old har??) i broke up with my boyfriend of that time , due to our differences in character and lifestyle . I really like him alot and i cried buckets after that . From then on , i realised that loving someone is easy , maintaining that particular infatuation is rather tedious and hard . Love may be able to overcome all the obstacles coming ur way , but when harsh reality may set in and you may find that the loved one infront of you now is not whom you wants to marry and live "forever" with . Is'nt humans or the present generation -aka Us , kind of shallow then?

Are you not shallow or materialistic? Do you not want a pretty or at least presentable girfriend or boyfriend , so that you can proudly tell others that they are your the other half . Do you "dare" (i use the word dare because that is the most suitable word to use ) to find a boyfriend or girl friend who is plump , extremely short (oei...i am not extremely short k , just shorter than average people.. *bleah* ) and present them to all your friends? Which one of you has never fantasize of a handsome and pretty mate as your future half? The Bambi eyes , the Kawaii girls and lady with a hot saucy ,sexy body? Or men who have six packs and look like Zhen yi Jian?
Who wants to live in 1 room flat or stay with your in- laws full of parents , nephews and grandparents in a small flat? Who has never dreamt of a "Tai-tai" life , or even staying comfortablely in a 5 room flat ?

Women or ladies(whichever you prefer ) over the age of 20 or 25 , start to look out for Husband's material . When we (females , unless you are a gay ) were young , we have no limitations. Any kind of guy , regardless of race /religion (unless you are a racist ) or character (usually , the more "BAd-ess" he is , the more exciting he seems ) and even level of education does not matter to most of us . Because at that age , all that matters were present , and future seemed so far away , so untouchable .
But now ( okay , i am still young , maybe 5 years later ) , even the level of education counts , his monthly salary (whether it is more than hers ) and his circle of friends (whether they are ah bengs or not ) comes into stringent consideration . Women are more concerned about all these citeria, maybe because we have maternal intsinct , we want a comfortable life and life without constant battling with husband about money to pay bills , school fees .

Appearance that used to matter alot , cease to matter much now . As long as your partner looks presentable , all is well. Now we will look for guys less "bad-ess" , as it cease to be exciting to be with bad Boys anymore , the gamblers , racers , fighters (whether they are self proclaimed good or bad fighters , it does'nt matter because ultimately Fighters or aka ah bengs/boxers are not suitable as husband candidate , in case during a domestic quarrel , they intend to use their "powerful fist work" on you . ) will not be shortlisted anymore .

As scattered thoughts ramble on and on ...as you read

Car = convience . Bike = there may be hope to upgrade into a car . No bike , no car = Save money , hope to save for flat in the future. The older a woman is , the less age becomes a barrier . Younger women in their 20's seems to be particularly interested in MAture men in their 40's or 5o's ( funnily , wealth of these matured men always seemed to be a tangible asset of these suposedly "attractive" men , so claimed by these young women . Donald Trump 's wife is an excellent good example ..hee)

Soo weird - when we were teenagers , age always seemed to be a huge barrier , now it has evolute into an attractive package that comes with matured and well-to-do men . Now women over 20's loves nerdy , decent and more matured guys when in the past they detest these boys to the core( ok , maybe i exaggerate alittle ) , they disliked the stability and common-ess that these "nerds" have . And now these women crave for the stability , peace and "unexciting" men (does not include the sex life part) has to offer .

Women are weird creatures , are'nt they ? Do not bother to understand them , they are as changeable as chameleon , mood swing that patterns like the weather in Singapore - unpredictable . Do not even attempt to try to reason with them , as logic seems to fail in their conversation . Rules and regulations apply only to you (the boyfriend ) , it does not apply to us -the girl friends (yesh , its double standard...) . What they (women) can do , You Cant . What you Cant do , they Can . Women strives to trivialise the important matters and blow simple matters out of proportion . HAha ...learn to love your girlfriends and suppressed the unfair-ness that you feel .

Penned @

1:03 AM